You do not need words to get a message across. There is a language that is understood across cultures, and that is the language of actions. There have been many times in my life where I have believed someone’s words, but I only get hurt in the end because they do not follow through. Putting too much faith in someone's words can have negative consequences, they could fail to keep their word leaving me only to be disappointed, on the other hand the effort behind doing something for me shows that they are emotionally invested in me as an individual.
The words “I care about you” mean absolutely nothing if the other person doesn’t show it. If you truly care about someone then you need to be able to show the other person so they know it. In this situation it is not important what you say to the person but what IS important is how you make the person feel. Have you made an effort to make this person feel cared for? Simply making an effort to hang out with that person will do the trick.
Where words may whisper, actions will shout. Forming words and saying them does not take much effort, but going out and doing something takes time and effort. For instance, buying flowers for your significant other, yea I agree the flowers will die one day, but it’s the thought that stands out. You could simply tell your significant other that you missed them while you were at work, but if you bring a bouquet of flowers home unexpectedly, it tells your significant other that you have been thinking about them all day, this would get you some serious brownie points my friend! Every time your significant other looks at the flowers or smells them they will be thinking about you, and they too will return the effort.
At the end of the day it only matters how you make the other person feel.
~Peace out.
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